The Bird Show.

All right, we're going to need the voice disguiser for, we're going to call her Melanie here.

Good morning, Melanie.

You're on all the hits Q100.

Hi.

Hi, here are you.

Good.

Your voice is completely disguised. There's no way anybody that can recognize it, okay? Thank goodness. Well, tell us, give us all the details about your husband's proposal here, because to us it kind of sounds a little on the

crazy side but maybe there's something here we're not getting well i when i found out that i was

pregnant you know everything in the beginning was okay um or it was actually great um and then the

further along i got the less attracted it seems that he has gotten to me it's like I try to start you know I try

to start it and he he'll he'll get up or he'll you know her roll over and go to bed I'm

tired or make excuses not to not to have sex and and then I keep trying and trying and trying i try different things

and it still doesn't seem to work it's like he he'll he'll start arguments um will um he'll

want to do things away from the house to stay away from me um find things to do, hang out with his friends, and then I get

jealous because he's been hanging out with his friends more than me.

And he's like, I'm a man, I need my space, I can understand that, but it's like through

the whole pregnancy.

I don't really have, you know, we're not together that much.

He finds he works a lot, He finds side jobs on the weekends. And I'm just, I'm clueless. I don't know what to do. Before the pregnancy, was he acting like this? Or was this just since you got pregnant? Just since I've gotten pregnant. And he hasn't come clean with you and said, I mean, because in your email it says you've gained 50 pounds with his child and he doesn't want to, you know, make love. You're assuming it's the 50 pounds. Has he said that? No, he has not. Okay. Have you talked with him about, I mean, I know you say he starts arguments, but I'm just curious, have you ever had a conversation with each other about your concern for your sex

life and his response? Yes, I have. And then it's like, I'll end up blaming it on him and he'll end up blaming it on me and then it'll just end up starting an argument. When he blames it on you, what does he say? If it's not the weight, what is it? Um, he says, it's, he says that I don't talk to him. We're actually talking at the moment.

He says that I don't talk to him. We're actually talking at the moment.

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