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And I don't know quite, there's more developments yesterday, but I'm not sure exactly quite how I'm going to handle it.

So I know a lot of listeners have been through divorces and it's early in the morning to get the phones ringing, but maybe they could help me out with this. You've been divorced? How long?

A year and a half, officially.

And you've seen him the last time?

A year, probably close to two years ago.

Officially.

Do the people that...

Even unofficially.

No, he said see him.

She has not been in the same room as him in almost 24 months. Almost, I think it's been almost two years. I don't remember exactly. And I'm guessing that time probably wasn't at a party. No, not at a social function. How did you find out that you guys are going to be at the same party? One of my friends tipped me off to it. She's because I said, I said, oh, I'm really

looking forward to this birthday party. And she said, well, you know who else has been invited and kind of just like kind of gave me that look and then moved on. And I was like, okay, I know exactly because it's mutual friends of ours, whatever. And so, so the debate for me is, you know, A, you know, the first debate is A, do you go?

And I'm like, yes, this is one of my closest friends.

Yes, I'm going to go. And then the second debate is, well, do I find out for sure if he's going to go? But then I've been on the other side of that with other couples that I know that have been divorced. and you put undue pressure on the hosts of the party

if you are the one stressing them out,

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