This is the Bert Show.

All right, so if you're trying to decide if this is the person you're going to marry,

the Bert Show has some pre-marriage advice for you and Cassie's the one who's going to

bring it.

So this was a TikTok from a user who is unfortunately divorced now.

She's pretty young like in her late 20s, early 30s and she said, I would literally give

all of the money in my bank account to have known this before I got married.

She says, look at your partner now.

Like if you're thinking of getting married or you're dating someone, you can even do

this if you are married and looking at your partner.

Look at them as they are now.

Take away all of their hopes.

Take away all of their dreams, all of their ambition, all of their potential.

Yes, literally strip them down.

They're not going to change.

They're not going to grow.

They're not going to execute their dreams like nothing.

Look at them as they are right now without all that clutter and all that like, well, one

day it's going to be like X, Y and Z.

Did you want a child exactly like that and would you be proud if you had a child like that?

And this works for you whether or not you want kids, like I know a lot of people don't

want kids.

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