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All right, so I think that if you're really, really close to somebody, like almost best friends-ish,

you should be able to say anything you want to them

knowing that it's coming from a good place, right?

Yeah, a lot of times people like,

I'm just being honest when in actual reality they're just saying

and they're making an a whole remark.

Like you, there is a way to be honest and kind.

Yeah, you say, you volunteering your opinion

in the interest of just being honest without it being asked,

just makes you an a-hole.

It doesn't make you a very honest person.

100%.

So we get this email from one birch show listener.

She's got a friend and I think it's a coworker as well.

That's maybe getting like some work done on her face or whatever and it's not looking so great and she's wondering if she should say something.

I need a lot of opinions on a very delicate situation. I have a coworker who's also become a really close friend.

I can send her one of my best friends and probably the one I talk to the most these days.

The problem is that gradually over a few years and more rapidly in the last couple months

she's been making significant changes in her appearance

due to what appears to be multiple cosmetic procedures.

She tells me about some but I'm pretty sure she's doing a lot more than what she's divulging.

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