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I'm gonna build right? Yes, sir, because it's the second date. So she in her mind she thinks that the kids is coming and she doesn't want to ruin it because she really likes this guy.

But she's not experienced in that area. So she wasn't sure if this is something that she should show up and be honest with him about.

Well, she's she not even mentioned it and she kind of go with the flow. She asked her friends for opinions. They all gave her different advice.

So she asked us what we thought and I think we came to a general consensus that she should just just go for it. Don't say anything.

Oh, say anything. And so I don't know if that's what she decided to do, but we are here to find out what exactly happened on that second day.

And even if you do now that we're thinking about it again, if we took the option of yeah, you should say something to them. It puts so much pressure on him too.

It does. Right. It adds this whole layer of a whole unwanted layer to the to the cat. Right. Like you're gonna. She's going to remember this for the rest of her life.

What if I am one that's true.

And I want to be her first kiss. She's going to get into radio and talk about how bad of a first kiss I was any chance she gets.

So rather not know that I put it this way. If I'm the guy, you don't tell me right. I would rather not know. Right. All right. So Cassie has the email update. What do we have?

Up until the very last minute before our date, I was struggling with whether or not I should tell him about my lack of experience with kissing.

I was worried that it might make things awkward or even scare him off. So I ultimately decided not to bring it up. Good.

The date itself went really well and we had a great time again. As the night went on, I started to get nervous about the possibility of a kiss, not knowing what to expect made my heart race.

We left the restaurant and decided to walk around for a bit. Eventually the moment arrived and I found myself face to face with him.

I could feel the butterflies in my stomach as he leaned in closer. I tried my best to follow his lead. I wasn't sure if I was doing it right, but I tried to relax and enjoy the moment.

It wasn't perfect, but it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be either. Afterward, we both smiled at each other and it seemed as though he was happy with how things went.

He walked me to my car and we hugged each other. Goodbye.

I'm glad that I didn't tell him about my lack of experience. I think it allowed us to just be in the moment and enjoy it without any added pressure or anxiety.

I'm not sure what'll happen next, but I'm happy with how it has all gone so far. Hopefully I'll hear from him and we'll go out again. I'll keep you posted. See, this is just a great example of how you can just build things up in your head over and over and over again and make it such a stress point when there's nothing to be stressed about at all.

Absolutely that. I mean, we won't know how well it went. I guess until she hears from him, but it seems like things went all right.

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