The Birch Show.

I just thought they were a bunch of mean girls a couple of days ago, and up until this point, I'm sticking with that because they've ruined a friend's wedding just because they weren't mature enough to have a conversation. And it just sounded mean. Yeah, I mean, it was the A-Hole Domino effect, because really what happened, it was this wedding where the bride was like, okay, we're going to have have these bridesmates and they're going to wear this mob dress and so the bridesmaids do

what bridesmaids do and they buy the dress

but then like a couple of weeks before the wedding

the bride's like eh changed my mind I actually want you

to wear this dress so I need you to buy a second dress

and of course all the bridesmates were like we already

spent like $400 on this dress. We're not going to not wear it.

So they all kind of unionized and they got in this group chat and they're like, we're all going to mutually agree to show up in this mob dress, right? And they're all like, yeah. So then they show up to the wedding in this mob dress. And of course, this bridezilla goes absolutely insane, upset because she's like what what do you mean guys are wearing this dress i I thought we agreed that we were going to wear the second dress that I asked you to purchase two weeks ago. What did they expect? And if they really cared about this woman and that was really her friend, they would have handled it in a much more mature way. So let's say they're all upset. And I get what you guys were telling me is that the second dress is a real hassle.

It's kind of rude last minute also to say, hey, now you guys got to get dresses without offering to pay for them also. I get the frustration. So somebody in the group say to her, hey, I just want to let you know what's going on with the rest of us. We're kind of frustrated. We don't have the cash. Over. Okay, then maybe we can work through it. But then to scheme against a friend on one of the days that she's going to remember for the

rest of her life and ruin everybody's day that was at that wedding also, it just felt like

over the top meanness that was unnecessary. I don't agree that it was a scheme, but I do feel

like it could have been solved if they were just like, hey, we haven't spent a ton of money. Like we can't afford this. I feel like most reasonable people would be like, all right, yeah, just wear them off. But isn't a scheme when you're like, okay, you guys, here's what we're going to do. We are not buying the dress and we are going to show up on the wedding day together in solidarity.

Unionized.

I love the word that you keep using for that. It feels very scheme. When you put it like that, it's a scheme. Well, a scheme to me feels like there's malice attached. I don't think they intentionally... No, I don't think they wanted to hurt her. I think they were like just... I think they were upset. they were being asked to spend another exorbitant amount of money on a dress

that they're going to wear for one day.

Like, are already wants to wear this ugly mob dress anyway, but you do it because of your friends or your family, because that's what you do. It's tradition. And so then when you're asked to spend more money on a dress when you shouldn't have had to buy two.

They weren't doing it to be mean.

They just didn't want to wear that dress because they didn't want to spend more money.

The mean thing is scheming again and showing up on the wedding day.

That is just mean to do to a friend right there.

And I think it was done with malice.

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