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From The Vault: Is Your Childhood Ruining Your Relationship?

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4.14.4K Ratings

🗓️ 1 September 2025

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

Is the way you were raised affecting your romantic relationships? We have a theory!

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0:00.0

The Bird Show.

0:01.4

This week on the breakup breakdown, we talked about attachment style theory.

0:05.5

And this is the thing that comes up.

0:06.9

I feel like every other week because it is such an easy way to explain away somebody's

0:12.4

behavior.

0:13.0

And it's probably going to be one of the first things that a therapist brings up with you

0:17.0

in your childhood history.

0:19.4

If you're talking about why you do things in a relationship.

0:22.1

And this week on my podcast,

0:23.5

which is on Byrds Network,

0:24.5

the Pioneer Network, the breakup breakdown,

0:27.0

we talked about how some guy cheated on this girl,

0:30.2

which is the tail as old as time,

0:31.5

but it's because he had a certain attachment style.

0:34.0

And your attachment style has everything to do

0:36.5

with how you had a relationship with your

0:39.3

caregiver so if you had a caregiver that was really flighty you may have an avoid an attachment style

0:44.6

if you had a caregiver that was really good and did everything right and we're a gentle parent

0:48.1

then you may have a secure attachment style and you're perfect and you don't need to change anything

0:52.7

about your life but But there are so...

0:54.6

The psychology is psychology-ean.

0:56.2

The psychology is psychology-ean. So I thought it would be really fun to get super-therapies today. And while I can't tell you what happened in your childhood to make you the way that you are. Oh yeah, you can. You know it's pretty well. right now. I can possibly help you work backwards by figuring out what your attachment style is with a Tiger Beat style quiz.

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