Several years ago I had a friend come to me and confessed to me he was having some difficulty with the ladies. One girl in particular he said things were going

well and then suddenly our relationship

got confusing and awkward and I don't understand and so he came to me for counsel and I

said well let me ask you a couple questions. I said number one have you been initiating moments with her where it's just the two of

you off together having conversations maybe over coffee something like that and he said yeah

I've done that.

I said, okay, how many times have you initiated said moments?

And he was like, I don't know, four or five times?

And I said, okay, in any of those moments

that you initiated, that the two of you would be off together, did you hold her hand?

And he said, yeah, maybe the last two or three times? I said, okay, all right, it's good to know.

Have you had a DTR yet? I said, okay, all right, it's good to know.

Have you had a DTR yet?

And he said, a what?

And I said, I think I just found our problem.

I said, a DTR a define the relationship talk bro. I said if you've been putting these

moments together where you're spending time with her pulling her away from

the crowd conversating with her touching her her away from the crowd, conversating with her, touching her.

And God forbid kissing her, he didn't do that.

He's like, well, maybe I'm like, okay, bro.

I said, at this point, she's confused on where she stands on some things.

She's looking for an official statement about y'all's relationship.

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