Welcome back to another episode of Sexy Marriage Radio alongside my wife, Pam.

Always good to be here.

Each and every week, straightforward honest conversations about married life and the journeys that we take within our marriage.

It can go a lot of different ways depending on the people involved in our history and our decisions

and our choices and the consequences. And that kind of sets the stage for today's question

that's coming from an emailer, a wife that's emailed in that it might take a little bit

of time to unpack and it's going to probably elicit some reactions from those in the nation

when they initially hear it. So I'm going to ask people to hang with us all the way through

as we unpack this. Yeah. Because we're going to take both segments with the regular and the

extended to go in detail about this because it's a little bit of a different path than a lot of couples

take when it comes to how

they've done their marriage. Is that enough of a tease for where we're heading with this thing?

I guess so, because I don't know all the details either. Well, here's an email from a wife that says,

I have a more in-depth question about being a lower-desire spouse. She works evenings until 1130 at home, and they have four kids.

Two of them are younger and two of them are teenagers, and the teenagers draw life out of her in a

different way, because teenagers are just teenagers, you know. My husband says we have a sexless marriage,

even though we have passionate sex about twice a week. I'm adamant

that I don't want to have sex when I'm tired after work. It's just not my thing. I like to make an

evening of it to have nice lighting, candles, music, a sexy outfit, and then have a sensual experience

together. My husband is okay with none of that, but he also does enjoy all of it as well.

To give some history here, we used to be swingers for a few years during our marriage,

and we've had some pretty erotic sexual experiences. We've not done this for two years,

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