I used to be actually super frugal before all this.

And I would always look at car payments.

I would look at mortgages and I would just like, whatever.

And then you start making money, you're like, oh, well, it's irrelevant in the grand scheme of how much we're making.

Like, what's a $3,000 car payment?

It's nothing.

And then things go south and you're like, no, it's actually

something. Like, I don't, like, I think I've stopped wasting money. That's good. I think you

waste, or me anyways, and I think this happens to everyone. You start making more money than you've

ever made. You waste just as a natural thing. And so getting back to like hey you know what i don't mind spending money on things that

uh i like but i want to be more uh not conservative but just more intentional yeah i think being

intentional about money is extremely important.

What I wonder about is what caused you to waste the money in the first place.

Like it was just a simple byproduct of making more money because I've never felt, I've never really felt that way.

And I don't think Graham has either, but I think Graham and I are for a little bit different reasons.

Yeah, I think it's also, I think wasting money comes from, well, I think there's a

couple of things.

So you'll get people who have no money, like habits or savviness, and they win the lotto,

they become a professional athlete, like those kinds of people, and they go bankrupt instantly, right?

Like,

that's a different thing than what I'm talking about or what I've done.

I think that for me,

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