From Hurt Girl to Girls Girl | After Hours With Amanda Ep. 50
After Hours With Amanda
After Hours With Amanda
5.0 • 697 Ratings
🗓️ 10 April 2024
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of After Hours With Amanda, I’m talking about raising girls’ girls, kindness with boundaries, jealousy, comparison, and the way insecurity can make us act like people we do not even like. I share why I was not always a girls’ girl, what younger me had to unlearn, and why I want my tiny queens to know that someone else’s compliment is not their criticism. This one is for the moms raising tiny humans, the women healing old friendship wounds, and anyone learning that kindness is not weakness.
00:00 Back in the Closet
01:15 One Bar Left to Give
01:43 Going Live Again
02:16 The Under Eye Filler Comment
04:46 Showing Up Anyway
05:38 Mr. Coffee Sent the Machine
07:09 My Mom’s Birthday Week
08:01 The Girls’ Girl Video
10:14 I Was Not Always a Girls’ Girl
12:02 Exposing Younger Amanda
14:37 Tearing Someone Down to Feel Chosen
16:31 Healing the Hurt
18:38 Feelings Are Not the Boss of Behavior
19:17 Preparing Girls for the World
21:25 Kindness With Boundaries
24:07 The Pollyanna Jam Example
28:40 Their Encouragement Is Not Your Discouragement
30:18 Not Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
34:28 What Being a Girls’ Girl Means
37:18 Jealousy, Growth, and God’s Timing
41:30 Kindness Is Not Weakness
43:30 You Can Change the Sheets
45:52 Yesterday You Is Not the Whole Story
47:27 If No One Has Told You Lately
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to another episode of the After Hours with Amanda podcast, the podcast for whatever era of life you are in. |
| 0:08.9 | I will have you know, okay? |
| 0:11.0 | For those with us on video and not just audio, y'all, the amount of requests to be back in the closet for an episode had me cackling. |
| 0:20.1 | Because in reality, would I love to have a studio set up that |
| 0:24.2 | looked super cute with my sign I would I really would um does the lighting in the closet bathroom |
| 0:30.9 | leave something to be desired that goes without saying however these hangers in the background, this stand, my literal, oh my gosh, |
| 0:40.0 | my microphone, hold on, can not even reach. Hold on, you guys. Oh, look at that. We went around it. |
| 0:45.3 | This is my little thing that I use when I'm actually utilizing. I will not carry this thing around. |
| 0:51.3 | I have to draw the line somewhere. I'm going to be honest with you. But when I'm doing something or trying to show you like different stuff, this is really great. But yeah, just sitting in the back of my closet with all of my stuff, random pants on the floor, earrings, a dead light, which I could have used for all of like five seconds, which probably |
| 1:14.1 | would have given us a little more light, but she's going to die. Do you see that? She has literally |
| 1:18.1 | one bar left. That was me last week. One bar left to give. So welcome back to another episode. |
| 1:25.4 | I went live today on TikTok and it was so much fun. I used to go live all the time. Tuesday nights, 2020, 2020, 21. That was my jam. You could have caught me any Tuesday night at 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. every single week without fail. Um, and then people got spicy. And I was like, I'm not here for this energy. |
| 1:46.0 | If you're going to come into this house, I'm the owner of the house. You know what I mean? |
| 1:51.0 | You know that sound? You know what I'm talking about. But I don't care if people talk about me. |
| 1:55.8 | Like we were on live today. You're going to have this. I cackled. If you weren't there, you're going to die. So we were on live and we were chatting. And I just always love chatting because I love being with you. |
| 2:05.9 | Everyone is so far apart. So it's really like it feels like going live is a great place to like come together and get to talk with everyone. |
| 2:13.7 | This video quality is killing me, but it's fine. I, so we're on there and this human who I really, I don't feel like they were being unkind. |
| 2:24.0 | I really, really don't feel like they were intentionally being unkind. |
| 2:27.0 | I think they were just giving their opinion, as people do in the wild, wild west of the internet. |
| 2:33.5 | And they said, I'm a big fan of yours |
| 2:37.7 | but you should fire whoever did you're under the eye filler the way i laughed the way and i was |
| 2:47.9 | not trying to be rude here's the tea I have no under eye filler I'm very |
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