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🗓️ 24 September 2025
⏱️ 65 minutes
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In this episode, Dave and Ann Wilson join the conversation to talk about their new book How to Speak Life to Your Husband. With honesty, humor, and decades of marriage ministry experience, they share why our words carry the power to either breathe life into our marriages or quietly chip away at them over time.
From their own struggles—including seasons where they almost lost their marriage—to the transformative changes they experienced through choosing encouragement over criticism, the Wilsons offer practical tools and biblical wisdom for every couple. They unpack the hidden ways our words can wound, how tone and timing shape conversations, and how small daily choices can shift the entire atmosphere of your home.
Whether your marriage feels strong or you're searching for fresh hope, this conversation will encourage you to believe that God really does use our words to bring life.
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| 0:00.0 | is one of the greatest gifts God gives us. And it is also one of the places where our words matter |
| 0:06.0 | the most. The things that we're saying to our spouse are either breathing life into the relationship |
| 0:12.1 | or it is quietly chipping away at it over time. And if we're honest, it's easy to slip into criticism |
| 0:19.3 | or sarcasm or silence. I am speaking from experience. Instead of |
| 0:24.4 | choosing words that encourage and build up and bring hope. And that is why I'm so excited about today's |
| 0:30.4 | conversation. I got to sit down with Dave and Anne Wilson to talk about their brand new book that |
| 0:35.0 | they wrote together, How to Speak Life to Your Husband. If you don't know, Dave and Ann, you should know, they do not shy away from |
| 0:44.3 | honesty. I love Anne. She's like, I am an external processor. I'm going to say what I think. |
| 0:49.1 | And they bring decades of wisdom from walking with couples in every stage of marriage and also their own |
| 0:56.4 | marriage. And so in this episode, we're unpacking why and how our words are so critical |
| 1:02.4 | in a marriage and the hidden ways that they can wound the transformative power they carry when we |
| 1:09.2 | use them to bless and build up. We're going to talk about |
| 1:11.4 | the challenges that wives face as we can feel unseen or unappreciated. What you can do if your |
| 1:19.2 | husband isn't leading spiritually and just practical ways. You know, I love tangibility, that we can |
| 1:24.7 | shift the atmosphere in our home with the words that we speak. |
| 1:32.2 | So whether your marriage feels steady and strong and you're in a great season, or if you're feeling like you need some fresh hope and encouragement, my prayer is that this conversation |
| 1:37.2 | encourages you, equips you, reminds you that God really does use our words to bring life. |
| 1:45.5 | Quick word from this week's sponsor, the Olive app. |
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