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The Next Big Idea

FRIENDSHIP: The Science and Power of Life’s Deepest Bond

The Next Big Idea

Next Big Idea Club

Social Sciences, Society & Culture, Education, Science

4.41.3K Ratings

🗓️ 9 June 2020

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Friends aren’t just fun to hang out with and handy in a pinch. They’re also a biological necessity. Rufus talks to journalist Lydia Denworth, author of a new book on the science of friendship, who explains why friends — even the online variety — make us happier, healthier, smarter, and more successful.

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0:00.0

Arle Bach settles in his chair in the Department of Hygiene at Harvard Medical School.

0:14.5

He nervously taps his fingers on a pile of Rorschock tests and blank questionnaires.

0:19.7

Dr. Bach is about to take the biggest gamble of his career. He's launching a new study and

0:25.0

research subject number one is due any minute.

0:30.0

It's 1938. Scientists have spent lots of time figuring out what makes people sick.

0:35.4

Bach wants to know what makes them well. What are the forces and habits the conditions and attitudes that bend the arc of people's lives.

0:44.0

What makes them live longer feel better succeed in the world?

0:47.4

So he's put together a new kind of study with a large team of researchers.

0:51.7

They call it the grant study after the retail

0:53.9

tycoon who agreed to fund it. The work will go on as long as the subjects are

0:58.8

alive and unless Bach discovers the fountain of youth, he will never see the results.

1:06.0

A young man enters, makes his way to the chair, and the questioning begins.

1:11.5

And it continues, year after year, decade after decade, and not just interviews, but social and medical histories, details of major organ functions, heart rate, lipid count, handwriting samples, favorite brand of cigarette, how they learned

1:25.2

about sex, anything that might affect their well-being.

1:29.9

The annual or biennial questions said every one or two years also included essay type

1:36.5

questions which work pretty well for Harvard men who have trouble stopping

1:41.6

talking. Psychiatrist George Valence takes over in 1972.

1:47.0

By then, one of the subjects John Kennedy has been elected presidents

1:51.0

and then killed by an assassin's bullet. Another Ben Bradley is

1:55.2

executive editor of the Washington Post. Twenty have had severe psychiatric illnesses.

2:01.5

Studies like this are exceedingly rare. Almost all projects of this kind

2:06.4

fall apart within a decade. Robert Waldinger, a psychiatrist in Zen priest,

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