Friendship Breakups Part 2: When A Toxic Friend Won’t Go Away
Crowned & Cancelled
Shallon Lester
4.7 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 13 April 2022
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Summary
Cutting off a friend isn’t easy…but what if they refuse to get the hint? What if they turn toxic and try to ruin your other friendships? I’ll give you the script on how to deal with an ex-bestie who just won’t get gone!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Girl on Top Shallin XO podcast. |
| 0:06.6 | I'm your host Shallin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, |
| 0:10.1 | where I analyze celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives. |
| 0:15.2 | But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week. |
| 0:22.5 | Welcome back to the podcast, Shaligators. |
| 0:25.1 | Well, this week we're going to kind of build on a loose little theme we've had over the last |
| 0:30.1 | few weeks, which is toxic friends. |
| 0:32.6 | I don't know what's going on. |
| 0:34.1 | It seems like everything's thawing out. |
| 0:36.8 | You know, the winter is ending, |
| 0:37.8 | and what are we discovering under all that freeze? A whole bunch of shitty-ass people. |
| 0:43.8 | I've talked to a lot of you guys recently about cutting people out of your life and doing that sort |
| 0:49.0 | of emotional spring cleaning. Like, again, we've been talking about here the last few weeks. |
| 0:53.7 | But sometimes people |
| 0:55.6 | actually aren't as easy to get rid of as, you know, those sweaters that don't fit in the box |
| 1:01.2 | of ugly shoes you're giving to goodwill. Sometimes they don't want to leave your life. So what do we |
| 1:08.7 | do if we're dealing with a friend who isn't exactly going gentle into |
| 1:13.1 | that good night? Maybe their toxicity is rearing its ugly head. Maybe they're trying to ruin |
| 1:18.4 | your reputation around town. How do you deal with this when you've done everything the right |
| 1:24.6 | way? You're trying to be healthy and you're trying to deal with this in a healthy way and they're just not playing nice. Well, don't worry. I've actually been in a very similar situation recently. I'm going to tell you what I did and we're going to hear from a shaligator in particular who's dealing with this in a pretty extreme way. But before we get started, just want to remind you that if you want to |
| 1:44.2 | talk with me one-on-one, head to my website, Shatlinlesser.com, and click submit a question. You can also get a custom video from me, if you want to submit a question that way, on cameo.com. And if you're out of the U.S., you can go to memo, M-E-M-M-M-O.com, and find me over there. Also, if you would still like to come with me to Italy, |
| 2:02.7 | ooh, girl, you know we're going to have such a good time. We are actually launching a second |
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