Hey guys, it's time for the Friday, five minutes where I'll be answering your questions

and dropping some knowledge and tactics to help you kick the weekend off, right?

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All right, let's cut to it.

All right, now the first letter comes from an anonymous guy, basically just a BSE

email, but he wrote that this stuff would never work in his town because he's on the south

side of Chicago, which I think is hilarious because you're in America and a very American

part of America that includes very regular people.

And this isn't like this person is located and anywhere exotic whatsoever, but you know,

it's a common misconception.

A lot of people think that people in their particular city or country are different than

anywhere else and require some sort of unique strategy.

I would say that this is because their own results or lack of results really taint the

way that they look at the people around them.

So for example, if they're having miserable luck in the dating pool and you've all heard

this, they'll say something like, oh, the women in this town or the men in this town

or even guys take it to the extreme on the internet.

American women are so XYZ American men are so XYZ.

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