Friday 5: There is More Good in You Than There Isn't
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 24 April 2017
⏱️ 7 minutes
🧾️ Download transcript
Summary
We are glad you found our season 1 episodes where we share early parts of our processes of learning about and exploring the impacts of betrayal on our relationship, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity.
Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information. We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relationship, though staying together or choosing divorce or separation can occur at the point of betrayal and at times even after healing from betrayal and addictions.
If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal
It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating.
If you would like support from a licensed therapist contact Brannon’s office at www.utahtherapy.org
To find out about Ashlynn’s groups https://www.thisisashlynn.com/mentoring
To get support from Coby check out www.growwithcoby.com
Thanks for your continued support for the podcast throughout all of our journey.
Transcript
Click on a timestamp to play from that location
| 0:00.0 | What's up everybody? This is the Betray, the addicted, and the expert. My name is Brannon and I am the expert. |
| 0:11.0 | And I'm Ashland and I was the portrayed. |
| 0:13.4 | And I'm Kobe, the recovering addict. |
| 0:16.4 | What you're gonna get is three unique perspectives on recovery |
| 0:21.8 | and tools for hope and healing. |
| 0:27.0 | Hey guys, this is Kobe. |
| 0:28.0 | My Friday 5 is called How Good Are You? |
| 0:34.0 | And I don't know that maybe that's maybe that's kind of a cheesy name, but in truth one of the issues that we have is addicts is |
| 0:41.8 | We tend to judge ourselves based upon how much quote-unquote bad we do in |
| 0:49.8 | our lives and and this has been heavy on my mind this week because I've been dealing with a number of guys who have just been so deep in shame because they allow moments, literally moments define who they are. |
| 1:05.0 | And there's kind of a, it's kind of like an onion of layers |
| 1:10.0 | on defining who we are based upon a few a few small trivial things. |
| 1:16.0 | Not that they're not weighty, but a few small moments. |
| 1:19.0 | So one of the questions that I asked this week to a number of guys is how much of your |
| 1:25.6 | average day is spent in addiction and literally the common response that I got the |
| 1:31.9 | average response I got was like on average like 3% of their average day is spent and I said okay so if that's the case |
| 1:38.2 | Then what does the 97% look like by way of action. |
| 1:43.8 | What does that demonstrate as far as who you are? |
| 1:47.6 | And really what that demonstrated was behavior that's really god-like. |
| 1:56.7 | Behavior that exemplifies the way that Christ lived, |
| 2:00.2 | that they just exuded good |
| 2:01.7 | in what they did day to day, in the relationships and the different roles that they played exuded good in what they did day to day in the relationships |
... |
Please login to see the full transcript.
Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.
Generated transcripts are the property of Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.
Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.