Benjamin and Asriabekar were the first couple that really modeled to me what sacred union was all about.

They are just now releasing a book called Becoming, which shows us all of their deep embodied wisdom about relationships, sexuality, psychedelics, and just how to think about life and success in general.

This is a beautiful conversations with two dear people, Benjamin and Asriabekar.

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Benjamin, as Rebekah. Yes, I love looking across the table and seeing people that I know so well because then I know that I can get deep.

I can crawl inside deep on the insides here and figure things out together, which I'm really excited to do. And I wanted to start with a quote that you have early on in your book.

And it's a quote from Glenn and Doyle. And the quote is, we are alive only to the degree to which we are willing to be annihilated.

Those are some powerful words. Why did you guys choose to put those words at the start of your book?

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