Four steps to fix team conflict at work
Modern Mentor
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4.3 • 726 Ratings
🗓️ 19 August 2025
⏱️ 8 minutes
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Summary
We’re not all friends at work. And we don’t have to be. But what you do do have to do is work well - effectively - together. In this week’s episode we’ll discuss a simple framework you can use with your team to define ways of working that suit all of your colleagues while driving your results.
Modern Mentor is hosted by Rachel Cooke. A transcript is available at Simplecast.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, it's Rachel Cook, your modern mentor. I'm the founder of Lead Above Noise, where we help |
| 0:23.6 | leaders design work so that results, wellness, and engagement all thrive together. |
| 0:29.1 | And if you're a leader of a team wishing you could get more from and do more for your team, |
| 0:34.6 | you're in luck. I'll be hosting a complimentary live roundtable on this very topic |
| 0:39.2 | on September 17th, 2025 at 1 p.m. Eastern. You can learn more and register for free at lead |
| 0:46.3 | above noise.com forward slash work design. So on to today's episode. Let's start with a random exercise. I want you to picture your colleagues, |
| 0:57.5 | the ones you tend to work with every day. Think about your experience of working with them, |
| 1:01.9 | and then in your head assign each one an emoji. Like maybe, hopefully, a few are the heart eyes face. |
| 1:09.8 | But be honest, is anyone the frowny face? |
| 1:12.7 | Or the, I'm covering my eyes so it's not my problem face? |
| 1:16.2 | Is anyone the actual poop? |
| 1:18.1 | Truth be told, a range of emojis is normal. |
| 1:21.1 | We don't have to love everyone we work with. |
| 1:23.7 | But we do have to actually work with everyone we work with, |
| 1:29.2 | even when there's friction or tension. |
| 1:34.7 | And you may not be surprised to learn this comes up a lot for me. And that's what we're going to talk about today, how to better manage team friction through work design, not through major overhauls, |
| 1:40.9 | but by changing how things flow, how your team operates together, inside the |
| 1:45.6 | container of your work. Because when there's an absence of ease, it impacts the results. So let's talk |
| 1:51.4 | about how I like to address this. Sometimes a client will say something like, the kids are fighting |
| 1:58.0 | and I need it resolved. And I get it. I see why a leader may feel like a |
| 2:02.3 | referee sometimes, but often what feels like bickering is actually a symptom of a meaningful and |
| 2:08.1 | solvable problem. I like to use four domains of teamwork as both a diagnostic and a design tool |
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