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When it comes to sexuality, your spouse is unique individual and here she has specific

desires and needs and in a cry-centered marriage, we've got to make sure that we're blessing

our spouse, meeting their needs and not just seeking our own. I'm John Fuller in the studio

with Greg Smolley and his wife, Aaron. Aaron, there are many couples who are dissatisfied

with this particular aspect of marriage. I mean, just lots and lots of couples, right?

Well, and what I would say is when couples come into my office, typically they're something

they're dissatisfied with. I always laugh because my couples don't come in here because things

are going well, typically. I mean, some couples will come in and say, we just want to tune up.

Great, but the research shows that 34% of married couples are dissatisfied with their sex life.

How many? 34%. That's moderately high. What I will often say to couples who are dissatisfied

is, you know what, A, let's unpack that and figure out why are you dissatisfied? And then what

is really leading to whatever's causing the dissatisfaction? And you know, it can be anywhere from

medical issue to past abuse or exhaustion or mishandled conflict or disconnection. So it's just

looking at what's going on. That's leading you there. I so appreciate the heart and the way you

just express those questions. And it may be that you're having trouble with this particular dynamic

of your marriage. If so, lean in because Deborah Fileta and Gary Thomas have written an excellent book.

It is a treatise, a really good treatment of the topic and it's called married sex. Look

in the show notes for links. Let's go ahead and listen to Deborah and Gary as they speak with Jim

Daily. Deborah, let's right here near the end. Let's give a little recap so that we can kind of

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