For The Girls Whose Hearts Have Hardened
For The Girls
Victoria Perciballi
4.7 • 631 Ratings
🗓️ 26 January 2026
⏱️ 28 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Settling is not an option for me. Everything I desire is already mine. What if you can have it all? |
| 0:07.6 | Because every day is For the Girls. |
| 0:11.4 | Hello, hello. Welcome back to another episode of For the Girls. I'm your host, Victoria Percivali. |
| 0:17.4 | And today's episode is for the girls who feel guarded for the girls who say |
| 0:24.9 | I'll never do all that for a man it'll never happen or maybe the girl who used to feel things with |
| 0:34.1 | guys and used to wear her heart on her sleeve but now she's scarred she's been through |
| 0:40.1 | too much so now she's like i am just not like that anymore i'll never be that girl again |
| 0:45.9 | this is for the girl who is afraid to get butterflies she doesn't trust easily and she simply doesn't fantasize about love or romanticize |
| 0:58.5 | love at all like the way that she used to. And maybe it's now because you've told yourself, |
| 1:05.7 | I'm too independent. I don't want to give up parts of myself. I don't want to compromise. I don't want to |
| 1:12.5 | share all of that with anyone again or men or this guy in particular ruin that part of me. |
| 1:20.0 | I'll probably never feel that way again. If that is you, just know this. First of all, |
| 1:26.5 | this episode is not about like convincing you to be that |
| 1:31.0 | girl. It's not about convincing you to lower your standards or to force vulnerability. You know that |
| 1:36.3 | will never come out of my mouth. I am not the one who's going to tell you, give that guy a chance. |
| 1:41.4 | He's so nice. You have to give every guy a chance. No. Okay, this is not about that. |
| 1:46.2 | But what this is about is hope and maybe some perspective. I really want to open your eyes if you are |
| 1:56.4 | that girl who feels hardened. But now let's make something very clear. You didn't become hard. |
| 2:06.3 | You don't just have this hard shell. There's not just something wrong with you. You became |
| 2:11.1 | protective of yourself. Okay. Let's call it how it is. You became protective of yourself. So maybe that hardened you. |
| 2:21.9 | But it's very important to know that that's not, that doesn't have to be the end of the story. |
| 2:26.6 | A hardened heart is not doomed. It doesn't have to be like, well, I used to be this way. |
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