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Settling is not an option for me.

Everything I desire is already mine. What if you can have it all?

Because every day is Four the Girls.

Hello, hello. Welcome back to another episode of For the Girls. I'm your host, Victoria Alario.

And today, we're talking about finding love exactly the way you are.

I think this is so extremely important, especially for all the girls out there who are putting

so much pressure on themselves to find their person and they really want to find, you know, the right guy for them. And

obviously when you're dating, there is a lot of pressure because for us women, we have

the mindset of like timelines and everything has to happen by this age in order for things

to go smoothly and whatnot. And even aside from like biological timelines,

there's also just the timelines that we kind of like set for ourselves. I know I can think back to

high school. I'm like, oh yeah, right after college, I'm going to be married and I'm going to have a

bunch of kids and I wanted to have four kids by 30 years old. And now I am, I'm going to be married and I'm going to have a bunch of kids and I wanted to have

four kids by 30 years old. And now I am, so we're in October, so November, December, January, February,

now I am four months away from 30 and I have zero kids. So riddle me that. Okay, my life has not gone

according to the plans that I set for myself at, say, 14 years old.

And I know that I am not alone in that.

I know that there are tons of girls out there who are in their 20s, who thought they, or

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