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The Anxious Achiever

Fitting In Is the Enemy of Excellence (with Anne Morriss & Frances Frei)

The Anxious Achiever

Morra Aarons-Mele

Business, Careers, Management, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.7599 Ratings

🗓️ 20 January 2026

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

What if the very differences you’ve been trying to smooth out are actually your greatest leadership strengths? In this episode, I’m joined by renowned leadership coaches and Fixable hosts Frances Frei and Anne Morriss for a conversation about anxiety, being a neurodivergent leader, and what it really takes to lead well. We talk about how partnership at work and in life has taught them to communicate clearly, embrace conflict, and build teams that thrive because of difference. I ask Frances and Anne some listener questions, from micromanaging bosses to burnout, imposter syndrome, and the fear of being “known for DEI.” Tune in to discover how setting boundaries and rewriting your inner narrative transform the way you lead and feel in life and at work. Check out our sponsors: Northwest Registered Agent - Protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/achieverfree Shopify - Sign up for a $1 per month trial, just go to http://shopify.com/anxiousachiever Cozy Earth - Give your home the luxury it deserves. Head to http://cozyearth.com and use code ACHIEVER for up to 20% off. Express VPN - Secure your online data today. Visit http://expressvpn.com/achiever and find out how you can get up to four extra months. Talkiatry - Head to http://talkiaitry.com/achiever and complete the short assessment to get matched with an in network psychiatrist in just a few minutes. Working Genius - Take the working genius assessment today and get 20% off with code ACHIEVER at working http://genius.com In this Episode, You Will Learn 00:00 Meet Frances Frei & Anne Morriss. 06:00 What partners with different wiring teach each other. 12:45 How conflict actually drives high performance. 16:45 How being neurodivergent has shaped Frances’s leadership at Harvard. 20:00 The power of devotion and high standards. 23:45 What are the three elements of trust? 27:45 How listening can change a broken dynamic. 31:30 Why inconsistent boundaries are the same as no boundaries. 39:15 Is it risky to be known for DEI right now? 42:15 How to make inclusion feel expansive, not exclusive. 50:15 Why you’re not the best judge of your own excellence. 51:00 Protecting your life force as a leader. Resources + Links Download the Anxious Achiever App HERE Listen to Fixable with Frances Frei & Anne Morriss HERE Learn more about Frances Frei & Anne Morriss HERE Get your copy of Unleashed by Frances Frei & Anne Morriss Get your copy of Move Fast & Fix Things by Frances Frei & Anne Morriss Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever Watch the podcast on YouTube  Find more resources on our website morraam.com Follow Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam Follow Frances: on LinkedIn @francesfrei + Instagram @francesxfrei Follow Anne: on LinkedIn @annemorriss + Instagram @annemorriss

Transcript

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0:00.0

Today we have an incredible conversation with Francis Fry and Anne Morris.

0:05.2

Francis Fry is a legendary Harvard Business School professor who's held many leadership positions

0:10.3

across the business school. And they're a couple. And they host one of my favorite podcasts called

0:15.4

Fixable. I bring them your questions about confidence and anxiety and neurodivergent leadership.

0:23.7

It's such a great conversation.

0:24.9

But first, did you know I have an app?

0:27.9

I do.

0:28.5

I have an app.

0:29.1

It's an anxious achiever app.

0:30.7

It is your in-the-pocket, super helpful, super convenient coach when you are dealing with being an anxious achiever

0:40.2

and trying to get some more joy and more ease in your life while not losing your amazing

0:47.7

overachieving edge. Go to studio.com slash mora. That's just like my first name, M-O-R-R-A.

0:55.7

Studio.com slash mora.

0:58.4

And check out the app.

1:00.2

It's so great, you guys.

1:01.4

There's videos.

1:02.2

There's meditation.

1:03.1

There's exercises you can drop into.

1:05.9

There's daily really quick.

1:08.1

I value your time.

1:09.2

They're really quick.

1:10.1

Two-minute reflections and prompts. You can start time. They're really quick. Two-minute. Reflections and prompts,

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