Think you need to wait until you’re “ready” to talk to a lender? Think again. In this episode, David sits down with expert lender Kelly Cort to explain why early conversations — even a year or two in advance — can save you time, money, and stress. If you’re serious about buying a home, this is the episode that could change your entire timeline.

Most first-time buyers delay talking to a lender because they think they’re not ready — not enough savings, credit isn’t perfect, or they’re “just researching.” But that delay can cost you. In this episode, David and seasoned mortgage pro Kelly Cort bust that myth wide open.

They explain how early lender conversations don’t require a pre-approval or credit pull, and how they help you create a custom financial game plan for buying a home — not just a mortgage estimate. From understanding soft vs. hard credit pulls to when you can actually lock in an interest rate, this episode walks you through everything you didn’t know you needed to know.

You’ll learn how to use cash strategically, why down payment assistance isn’t just for low-income buyers, and why obsessing over interest rates can distract you from building real buying power. Whether you’re buying in six months or two years, this is the knowledge first-time buyers rarely get — and absolutely need.

“Just because you can qualify for a $400,000 home doesn’t mean you should.”

 Highlights

• Why “getting pre-approved” shouldn’t be your first step — and what to do instead
• The truth about credit pulls, pre-approvals, and when they actually matter
• What a discovery call is (and why it could change your whole plan)
• Why some people who “qualify” still feel house-poor — and how to avoid it
• Down payment assistance myths: who actually qualifies and how to find out
• Understanding rate locks, points, and whether it makes sense to “float” your rate
• Real talk about affordability: what you can buy vs. what you should buy

Referenced Episodes

• 424 - First Time Home Buyers: Chloe & Eduardo Close on a Home (INTERVIEW)
• 340 – Down Payment Assistance, Discovery Calls & Lending Myths (INTERVIEW)
• 339 - Don’t Get Pre-Qualified—Get a Plan (INTERVIEW)
• 247 - INTERVIEW: Tips from Expert (Unicorn) Realtor & Lending Team - VA First Time Home Buyer

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David Sidoni, the "How to Buy a Home Guy," is a seasoned real estate professional and consumer advocate with two decades of experience helping first-time homebuyers navigate the real estate market. His podcast, "How to Buy a Home," is a trusted resource for anyone looking to buy their first home. It offers expert advice, actionable tips, and inspiring stories from real first-time homebuyers. With a focus on making the home-buying process accessible and understandable, David breaks down complex topics into easy-to-follow steps, covering everything from budgeting and financing to finding the right home and making an offer.

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