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The Angry Therapist Podcast

Finding The Perfect Partner vs Finding Perfect In Your Partner

The Angry Therapist Podcast

John Kim

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 18 August 2021

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, John explains his take on "the one," and how to focus on finding the perfect in your partner rather than finding the perfect partner.




Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.





Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

0:05.6

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

0:10.4

I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

0:16.2

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

0:19.4

Hey I want to tell you about the lab if you haven't heard it is wellness. Anywhere you go you could

0:28.6

listen to it like a podcast they're basically live zoom classes but you could listen to them on a run or you could turn the camera on and engage with them.

0:38.0

We have a thriving community of like-minded people trying to live better lives and it's been amazing. like

0:45.0

like co-minded people trying to live better lives and it's been amazing. Not only do we have the foundational classes like co-dependency and

0:49.0

trauma and relationships and all that, but we also have a lot of fun classes because it's so hard to make

0:56.0

friends as adults right so we have terror card readings we have so shower we have

0:59.7

astrology readings we're turning wellness into a lifestyle. We're also going to run a retreat soon. So come

1:06.5

and hang out with us, come ride with us, go to the website to get into the lab and then go download the app. We have a brand new app out with tons of audio.

1:18.0

I'm going to give you a discount code and this is for a limited time. So if you're listening to this, you can join the

1:27.2

lab for only $20. It's like a drop-in fee. For three months,'s $20 a month go to TATLab. App that's TatLab.

1:40.7

And the discount code is, live better.

1:44.0

It's case sensitive, so all lowercase, one word, live better.

1:48.0

And I will see you in the lab. So if you read me you know that I don't believe in the one. I believe in

2:01.1

the one right now I think the concept of the one is romantic and I'm a

2:07.7

hopeless romantic and I grew up watching romcoms and Disney movies, well not really Disney movies, but romantic comedies and brought into the idea that there is one person for you and when you find that one person you're supposed to be with

2:23.8

forever that you pull yourself into that person and that's what love looks like and

2:29.0

yes all that like that gives me tingles and I love that idea.

2:35.0

But I think it's dangerous because if you think that there is only one person for you, you're going to believe that because that person is meant to be with you, that that person should be perfect.

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