Finding My Husband: Is This the End of Bookman?

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🗓️ 20 November 2025

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Everything felt perfect… until the rabbit showed up.

An emotional shift I couldn’t explain, a pullback I didn’t see coming, and the moment Bookman and I quietly unraveled. This episode dives into the signs you miss, the distance you feel before it’s spoken, and the breakup you don’t want to admit is happening.

Did I make a mistake walking away… or would you have done the same?

You tell me.

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0:00.0	I have been holding off making this episode. Today is my three month anniversary with Bookman,
0:07.0	but we will not be celebrating it because we did break up. I mean, I broke up with him. I've been
0:11.7	holding off making this episode because I wanted to allow my feelings to adjust. And I was also,
0:18.6	I guess, hoping that maybe things will work out before I had to make this episode
0:22.8	and then I wouldn't have to make this episode, but they didn't.
0:26.9	And I guess I didn't want to talk about it yet because once I have to say out loud,
0:32.6	then it feels like it's true and it is true because we're done.
0:36.4	Honestly, it feels like whiplash the way everything
0:39.7	happened everything happens so fast it's file events and your favorite meme queen and the big
0:44.4	sit you didn't ask for but see welcome to almost adultingolting. Are you ready?
0:54.8	Hi, Bastis.
0:55.6	And welcome to a brand new almost adulting.
0:58.6	I'm your host, your Russian big sister.
1:01.5	Giving you that tough love.
1:02.6	My name is Violetta.
1:04.4	I always mess up the introduction.
1:06.6	I've actually been wanting to do a new intro, but I'm your best friend, your host, everything in between your Russian big sister. Giving you that tough love, you may not want to hear but best believe you're going to need. Today is not me giving you tough love. Today, I may actually need your tough love. So if you have any advice for me, please feel free to give me advice. If you're currently going through a breakup, I just want you to to know you're not alone because today's episode is all about how bookman is no more buckle up and listen up this episode
1:33.8	is actually a full hour and i cut out 30 minutes of me just blabbing on in circles trust me i saved you but
1:41.0	you're going to love today's episode i think think. I'd love to hear your thoughts and
1:45.2	opinions about it all. And lastly, before you get started with today's episode, today's episode is
1:50.6	sponsored by skims. Love you. Enjoy. Real talk. I used to sleep in like these tight little bras before
2:00.4	and then my titty would just like come out in the middle of the
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