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Focus on Marriage Podcast

Finding Healing through Humility

Focus on Marriage Podcast

Focus on the Family

Society & Culture, Relationships

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🗓️ 13 February 2025

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

The big lie on recovering from porn addiction is that you can solve it by yourself. Jim Daly talks with Mark and Rosie Makinney about why the first steop to getting free from pornography is to surrender to Christ. Also, John and Erin will provide encouragement to those who've been wounded by their spouse's porn use.

 

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0:00.0

In the New Testament book of 2 Corinthians chapter 12 verse 9, Paul wrote,

0:10.2

My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.

0:16.3

You or someone you know is probably weak because of a porn addiction.

0:23.4

Be encouraged. Remember that God's grace can help you overcome. I'm John Fuller, along with Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife,

0:28.8

Aaron. They lead our marriage team. And Greg, you had a problem with porn at one point. And

0:35.2

that could be very humbling. You learned to rely on God in that

0:38.6

recovery. I know you've talked about it. We have a whole podcast series devoted to your recovery

0:44.6

story and help for others. Yeah, because in the beginning, I was so convinced that as I was

0:50.1

struggling with porn, that I could just do this on my own, fix it on my own, you know,

0:55.4

overcome this on my own. And that's part of the sad reality is that we shouldn't ever think

1:04.2

that way much less around pornography, think that we can just deal with this on our own. And that's

1:09.1

why really turning to God, first and foremost,

1:12.5

I think there's humility that you talked about in just saying, God, actually, I can't do this on my own.

1:18.7

That's why I love 2 Corinthians 129 that you read, just had to repeat that verse, that in my weakness,

1:25.5

God, you are strong. You give me that grace. Because, you know,

1:30.2

grace is such a powerful thing. God gives his grace to the humble. And that was so true that

1:35.6

the moment that you're going, God, I really can't do this on my own. I am powerless. I'm

1:41.8

surrendering control to you. Help me to do this. I mean, that's where he's

1:47.2

flooding us with his grace versus that pride flow. I got this. I can deal with this on my own.

1:54.7

I think the big part too for me was really connecting with God's forgiveness. It's really easy. I know Satan prays upon my

2:04.1

brain and wants to flood my mind with see you screwed up again. You're such a failure.

2:10.2

You know, you're not going to have, you know, an effective ministry. You won't be able to do

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