Welcome back to advice session. A series here on Anything Goes where you send in your current dilemmas

or anything that you want advice on. And then I give you my unprofessional advice. And then you take it

with a grin of soul. And today's topic is finding comfort within yourself. Listen, I know it can be

tempting to find comfort in other people, in distractions. But here's the problem with that.

It's inconsistent. It's unreliable. What's more plentiful than something that's coming from within?

Something that you're creating, something that you have maximum control over. That's why I think we all

want to find comfort within ourselves, but it's challenging.

It takes work.

It's much easier to rely on something else because there's no creation going on there.

You know, you don't have to create anything from within.

You don't have to do any of the dirty work if you're just finding it out in the world.

Before I start going down a rabbit hole

that even I can't follow,

because I'm already feeling myself doing that right now,

let's just get into this episode.

I briefly interrupt this episode to let you know

that this episode is presented by Volkswagen.

Don't get me wrong, sometimes I love to be a passenger.

Growing up, I loved sitting passenger seat in my dad's old Volkswagen,

wind in my hair, listening to music. There was something magical and carefree about it. But once I got

my driver's license, I've loved being in the driver's seat ever since. Not just in the car,

but in my life as well. This is from me, from Volkswagen, and all the other drivers out there.

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