Okay, so last week, Brett and I were doing the groundbreakers together. And one of the things that I noticed that kept on coming up as a theme was finding love, whether it was, I want to find the right person or it was I found the right person, but they, they weren't, you know, into me or some version of that. So that's what I want to talk about today. How to find love, the misconceptions in that,

and what's really going on when you're in that state.

Welcome to the art of accomplishment,

where we explore how deepening connection with ourselves and others

leads to creating the life we want with enjoyment and ease.

I'm Brett Kistler, and this is Joe Hudson.

Hey, Brett.

How are you doing?

Doing great.

And I love this topic because it's shown up not just in the groundbreakers that we did last

week, but also others coaching clients, other people in life right now.

I notice that there's sort of this pattern right now where a lot of people have gone

through the pandemic and have had a lot of relationship changes during or post-pandemic.

And so I think that's just a question that's in the air in this time.

So yeah, I'm excited to get into it.

So you mentioned a couple patterns just there.

And can you tell me a little bit more about

those? Sure. So here's what I see happen. I see happen is that somebody, let's do the director,

and someone's looking for love. And they somehow think it's a numbers game. Like the common idea is like,

if I meet the right person, then it's all going to work out.

And that's just not how it works at all. It's not at all about meeting the right person, which

seems so strange because obviously on some level, it's about meeting the right person, but it's

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