Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery. This is Anne. I started talking with

Kelly last week about her personal experience, a member of the Seventh

Day Adventist Church, and she is sharing her experience with us. If you didn't hear last week's episode, please go there first,

listen to that, and then join us here. Before we get to the continued conversation with Kelly,

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website BTR.org. All right, so now we're going to continue the conversation from last week with

Kelly. She's just going to jump right in.

I'm very thankful now that I have a much clearer understanding of what I think the Bible does say about the wife

needing to do and the husband needing to do and marriage in general because I don't

believe that Jesus would have

to be the specific dates that he had sex with another woman are what made the difference. Absolutely not.

I think Jesus would choose to focus on the fact of where his devotion lies

and what a marriage covenant actually truly is supposed to be about not the

technicalities of the timing of when it happened.

Absolutely. I could not agree with you more. It's actually insane.

It is.

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