No doubt about it. Man, that's a, it's an amazing story. And I, I mean, obviously I can just

tell the pain it brings you even retelling the story, right? And it's crazy how life, like

life is like that. You know, it's like 12 years later, it's still like stings, you know,

a mistake. But, you know, I'll tell you even for me, some of the best things that I've

ever done or created are because of mistakes I've made. And so, you know, you call it divine

intervention and everything is like, you know, God obviously had a plan. And it's, it's brought

everything that's happened to this point together. And, you know, 750 episodes. And I think

you're telling me, you have a fourth book, you know, on the way. And it's like, it's crazy,

you know, and, and to see all of that growth. And I'll tell you too, I've seen many successful

people on my show or just friends and whatever to. And like you said, they're all in the same

boat. They all put their pants on the same way. And I would honestly argue that the majority

of them struggle more than just like the average guy, mainly because they're so dedicated

to their craft and the success of whatever it is, whether it's baseball, whether it's

acting, whether it's, you know, running their business like right there, they're known

as this public figure who has all this success. And if they don't have that success, it's

like their life is ruined. And so they're willing to sacrifice, you know, family, faith,

their health, everything in order to maintain that level of success, you know, externally,

whatever validates them. And so I'm sure you've, you've mentored a lot of these people

in their, during your program, like, you know better than me. But I, I just have noticed

that trend as well.

I think a lot of men, wherever life, wherever they feel that they come alive the most,

or that they feel success and validation, it's easy to focus a ton of time and energy

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