Hi everybody. I'm Joanna.

And I'm Jenny.

And this is hyphenated the podcast about living in the hyphen.

Can you tell I did, um, I did an audition for a car commercial like yesterday.

I'm like forcing a good mood today because something happened to me this week

that I'm embarrassed to say really bothered me.

And I couldn't put my finger on why it like, you know when something happens and you just feel fire in your heart because of the frustration and the, it's not even like anger. It's not even like anger it's ending it's that indignant um it embarrasses me

when it happens with something very small so this week i opened up my mail i nothing good ever

comes in the mail no i hate It's always a stupid fucking bill.

It's never something good.

But this time, it was some, I saw a beautiful invitation in my mailbox.

And I was like, oh my God, finally, something good in the mail.

And I go to open it and it says, Mr. and Mrs.

And then my husband's name.

Wow.

And I was like, okay, wait. That's not me.

Okay. And I was just like staring at this invitation, angry. And I was like, should I feel like,

oh, I'm Mrs. Daniel? Like, I felt this rage. And I felt this rage since I got married and people

just assumed I was going to take his last name.

And when I refused to, like my doorman refuses to believe I didn't take my husband's last name.

So he keeps on calling me Mrs. Pante Bianco.

And it bothers me.

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