Do you know what I think is weird? A mean Christian. Oh, excuse me, I just jump right in there.

Welcome to another session of Feminine Fridays. I hope you have been enjoying, but I want to talk about this subject because I'm amazed at how many people meet me in real life and they say, oh, you're just as nice as you are on

social media. And to me, that's weird because it's, it's normal almost to have this idea that

if you're a Christian, that you shouldn't be nice. And that's so weird to me. Is that weird to anyone else?

And I think it's because we've normalized toxicity so much. We've normalized trauma.

There was this lady who was around us several years ago. And she told me, she came to me,

you know, after about a few months and she said she was helping

out with our kids and she said, you know, I used to see pictures and all of that on social media,

but I thought all of that was fake. But she said, now being around you all, I realize is real.

And she said, I never saw that because my parents

played the role that they were happy, but at home, it was a living nightmare. And that saddens me

so much because we haven't seen enough examples of health and healing and love and patience.

So let's have a little Bible study, shall we?

For just a couple of minutes.

Go with me to Galatians 22 through 23.

What does it say?

But the fruit of the spirit is what?

Love, joy, peace, patience, patience. spirit is what love joy peace patience kindness faithfulness this is this is this is what the scripture is

saying you do you see all do you see and hear everything that I'm saying?

Faith, meekness, temperance.

We, it's so many things.

And I think it's because we've confused a gifted person with a person who has fruit,

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