Because when I first got on with them, just getting out of that super abusive relationship I was in,

I was definitely manipulated into a relationship by a predator.

But I was like 17 and he was 38.

Always a big advocate for not putting yourself in bad situations.

Let's say that happened at a bar. Some guy was like getting handsy and like you staying there.

Yeah.

And allowing it to continue to happen is probably only gonna escalate that situation.

Yeah.

Like especially if people are drunk, like they don't have self-control or like risk management thing in their head when you're drinking.

Like you're willing to like push the

envelope because you don't, you're not like afraid of what's going to happen. Keeping yourself out of that

situation. Again, like yeah, not getting drunk and wasted, walking around in a place you don't know

or getting in a car with someone you don't know in another country. Like they could take you

anywhere and you have no idea. Don't put yourself in weird situations if you're not in control or you're not comfortable.

Like, just don't do it.

I think everybody out there is going to find happiness in a different way in society right now with a lot of quote-unquote experts that seem to think that they have the answer for

everyone. Accountability means I'm willing to admit that I played a role. Pain, but not just pain

because I think we can turn into martyrs and we can be in pain and suffering and look how much

I can carry we talked about terminally unique. Like look how hard my situation is. Your heart kind of

tells you the truth all the time, even when it hurts.

In order for you to get all the gifts at the end of the rainbow, you have to be responsible for

your own energy.

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