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Dharmapunx NYC

Fawning: Avoiding Conflict At All Cost By Performing Placating Behaviors

Dharmapunx NYC

josh korda

Religion & Spirituality, Religion & Spirituality:buddhism, Buddhism

4.8886 Ratings

🗓️ 16 October 2021

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Please support my buddhist pastoral work. Venmo: dharmapunxnyc.

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0:00.0

Hi there, welcome.

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New DomaPunks, NYC.

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My name is Josh.

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I'm a Buddhist pastor and I've been the teacher since 2005.

0:12.0

Just before I jump in... since 2005.

0:12.7

Just before I jump into tonight's talk,

0:17.0

if you'd like to support my work,

0:21.6

PayPal is on the darmopunks NYC.com site and the

0:26.8

Benmo is darmopunks with an ex-nyc so thanks for that. Tonight I'm going to be talking about what some people call the

0:39.0

fourth trauma response or the fourth survival reaction along with fight-flight freeze. There's also

0:50.7

the fawn response, fawning.

0:57.0

The autonomic nervous system responds

0:59.7

to cues of safety, danger and threat in the world around us and in our bodies and from our

1:09.6

connection with other people via what we could call three pathways of response.

1:17.0

There's three neurological pathways that activate different behaviors in us.

1:27.0

The most ancient pathway is the old

1:34.0

parasympathetic, which is more commonly known as

1:37.0

the mobilization or freeze tendency to stop dissociate to essentially almost play dead in the face in when

1:49.2

confronted with imminent physical overwhelm the possibility of death.

1:57.2

This ancient system, this ancient parasympathetic system is what kicks in not only when we're confronted with overwhelming threats, but also when we're healing from sickness or when we're struck with intense grief over a loss of an attachment figure or

2:20.6

significant abandonment, we grieve and when we grieve we're largely in this ancient parasympathetic setting.

2:32.0

In this setting this ancient freeze shut down while it allows us to heal from physiological injuries

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