You know, Sex is an important part of marriage. Today we are answering your questions about sex. We

polled everyone on Instagram to see what questions you have about sex, and today

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guest interview. Be sure to hit subscribe so that you can tune in each and every week. So Dr. Kim,

just going to rapid fire these questions off at you. Are you ready?

I'm ready. Ready to talk about sex. Here we go. So the first question is, what do I do?

What do you do if your sex drive is completely gone, but your spouses isn't?

I think the worst thing you can do is just accept that's the way it is it's got to be something that you work on and you work on

together i maybe last year i had a couple it was really a pretty good example of that because he

had tried to talk about her sex drive was not there uh but she wouldn't respond she wouldn't listen

to him she wouldn't talk he had an affair that's not an excuse to have an affair but uh they

didn't deal with it.

And then they did deal with it later on in counseling.

And the thing is, we were able to work on some things and work that out.

Because I think a lot of times if Steph Drive is gone, why is it gone?

Do we need to figure out why is it gone?

Is there something medically there?

Is it something that's happened to the relationship?

Is it just hormonal? You know, what is it like that? And I've had, I had one wife one time that was

astounded that her husband had an affair because she said, I just didn't think sex was important

to him anymore. And so, so she didn't, you know, she didn't have a drive. So she didn't. So I think we make some assumptions there that causes problems. And so my answer that would be if the drive is gone, the spouses isn't do something about it.

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