Fan Mail Friday #60 | Scent of Single

The Art of Charm

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🗓️ 29 April 2016

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this episode: Your overall confidence is low and your desperation rises as you seek a new job in a new town with no luck yet -- and any hope of dating seems to be following the same pattern. What do you do? You're in your twenties and it's the first long-term relationship for both of you. Hesitation over a proposal leads to a breakup, though you stay in touch and hope remains that things might still work out between you. Is it okay if you don't have everything figured out yet? How do you show your older siblings you've come a long way since you were the "dumb" kid in the family? You got drunk to counter the anxiety you feel in social situations and said some things to your friends for which you may never be forgiven. How do you approach them to express regret and try to make things right (while cutting back on the drinking so this doesn't become a common occurance)? Are women more attracted to guys who are taken? And if so, why? How do you decide whether or not the virginity you've always been proud of maintaining is worth holding until marriage? We all process through emotional filters and assign meaning to things that don't always warrant them. Jordan demonstrates how this works in his latest video. Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-60-scent-of-single/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

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0:00.0	Time for fan mail Friday episode 60. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger. I'm here with producer Jason
0:04.8	DeFilippo. We'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you
0:08.8	kick the weekend off right. If you're new to the Art of Charm Podcast, this is not the best place
0:13.1	to start. Most of our content is much more in-depth and longer formats to check out the best of
0:18.3	at the Art of Charm.com slash best or the fundamentals toolbox at the Art of Charm.com slash toolbox.
0:24.4	There we've got the fundamentals of body language, nonverbal communication, attraction,
0:28.4	negotiation, networking, and everything else we teach here at the Art of Charm. We'll send you
0:33.2	all this to your inbox if you text charmed at CHARMED-33444. All right, here we go.
0:40.5	Hey Jordan, I've been listening to your show for almost a year now and I thoroughly enjoyed
0:44.3	the information that you put out there for all of us to acquire and think about. Some of the
0:48.1	information has truly been helpful so thank you. I have a pressing concern about myself and I hope
0:52.4	maybe you can shed light on what's going on. I recently moved to Austin and I've had some trouble
0:57.0	getting set up. I can't seem to find a full-time job. In the interviews I keep going on seem to go
1:01.9	well, but then no offer comes around. Right now I'm working two part-time jobs in my overall confidence
1:07.6	is low and my desperation is rising, which doesn't seem like a great mix at all. In addition to this,
1:12.7	I'm 30 years old and single. It's starting to drive me a bit crazy watching couples everywhere
1:17.2	smile and have fun almost like they're rubbing it in my face. I would consider myself a great looking
1:22.0	guy with great qualities, but what seems to be the problem is that I'm trying too hard to find a
1:26.4	woman. The same situation with my job searched seems to be happening is in my love life, meaning my
1:30.8	overall confidence is low and my depression is rising. What can I do? Please help. Signed? Well, what's
1:36.6	next now? I understand what it's like to be in transition. I've done it a lot of times in my life.
1:41.6	Luckily we've done a whole podcast on moving to a new town setting up a social circle, setting up
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