Fan Mail Friday #52 | Supplicative Sweatpants

The Art of Charm

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🗓️ 4 March 2016

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this episode: Can your personal growth still thrive if you're in a relationship with an underachiever? A man in sweatpants every night is just as unsexy as a woman in sweatpants every night. Should an interviewer ever challenge a subject matter expert if their experience with the subject differs? An Art of Charm bootcamp veteran explains why he chose our residency program over some of the larger ones out there (and what he told his friends who asked what he was doing on his week away). How important is your grade point average in college compared to actually learning something useful? What do you do when you see someone clearly engaging in supplicative behavior? Check out Jordan's video this week about why you need to cultivate discipline to win. Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected] or even, thanks to our friends at Burner App, leave us a voicemail or text at (415) 429-1915! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-52-supplicative-sweatpants/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

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0:00.0	Hey everybody, time for fan mail Fridays. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger and I'm here with my producer Jason DeFilippo
0:06.0	We'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right?
0:11.3	If you're new to the Art of Charm podcast, this isn't the best place to start. Most of our content is much more in-depth and
0:17.4	Longer formats to check out the best of at the Art of Charm.com slash best or the fundamentals toolbox at the Art of Charm.com
0:24.8	slash toolbox. There we've got the fundamentals of body language, nonverbal communication, attraction, negotiation, networking and everything else we teach here at the Art of Charm.
0:34.0	We'll send all of this to your inbox if you text CHARMED that's charmed to 3-3-4-4. All right, let's cut to it.
0:43.5	I'm a highly motivated, high-achieving female and a happy and healthy relationship with a man who I'd label the non-AOC type.
0:50.5	He doesn't enjoy consuming material for self-improvement and productivity. He's completely content not having his year planned out in detail by each quarter.
0:58.5	My question for you is, do you think this hurts my growth and self-improvement goals?
1:03.0	He has never made me feel ashamed, silly, etc. for being how I am and I don't let the way he is stop me from achieving my goals.
1:10.2	However, my perspective is limited to my experience. In your experience of working with thousands of AOCs,
1:15.8	are the ones in committed relationships with other AOC type individuals better off?
1:20.4	In the big picture, are they more likely to achieve their goals? Thank you. Contemplative and curious.
1:26.1	Hey, CC, thanks so much for the note and thanks so much for being a dedicated AOC fan. We love our AOC sisters.
1:33.2	And I'll tell you right now, the old rule that we've talked about a million times, I want to say this is Jim Roan.
1:38.5	Not to be confused with Jim Roan. You only go as high as your five closest friends.
1:43.0	The people who are in your intimate circle are definitely counted in the five closest friends.
1:48.4	Your partners, your significant others are significant others.
1:51.8	They have a very strong influence on us and that influence can be positive. It should be positive.
1:57.4	It should bring out the best in you. However, it can also be limiting.
2:00.6	We want somebody who opens us up. In your relationship, CC, what are his strengths? Is he fun? Is he spontaneous?
2:07.9	Is that something you feel you need?
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