Fan Mail Friday #46 | Outdressing Your Bullies

The Art of Charm

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🗓️ 22 January 2016

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #46! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! Kim Seltzer joins Jordan in this episode to offer a genuine therapist's perspective. Enjoy! In this episode: What dating advice do we have for a couple in a 14-year marriage who just decided to start swinging? How do you deal with a workplace bully who stalks you, threatens violence against you, tries to sabotage your career, and makes you wary of trusting anyone? Is a confident, married wingwoman hurting her single friends' chances at romance more than she's helping them? How do you get your best friend to stop idealizing and pining for his ex-girlfriend and move on with his life? What do you do when you've given up on all religions, but only seem to attract women who have strong ties to their faith? What's the benefit of outdressing your colleagues (especially when your colleagues dress like day-drinking beach drifters)? How do you fix sabotaging self-talk? Jordan talks about it in this latest video. Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-46-outdressing-your-bullies/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

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0:00.0	All right, time for fan mail Fridays where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off
0:06.5	Right if you're new to the art of charm podcast. This is not the best place to start most of our content is more in depth
0:12.7	Longer formats to check out the best of at the art of charm.com slash best or the fundamentals toolbox at the art of charm.com
0:19.7	slash toolbox
0:21.1	That's where we've got the fundamentals of body language nonverbal communication attraction negotiation networking
0:27.2	Everything else we teach here at the art of charm
0:30.0	All right, let's cut to it swinging together says hey Jordan me and my wife have been married for 14 years
0:35.3	We're in our early 30s. Wow. That's
0:38.0	Super young marriage. She is very bisexual and we have opened up our marriage about a year ago
0:43.7	We're very committed to each other and both are very comfortable with our decision to do this swinging thing
0:49.5	Here's my which is a whole word is just funny. Here's my question
0:52.9	Do you have any tips for dating as a couple the dynamics are so different when two people are dating to other people?
0:58.6	I know this is a broad question. Thanks for any advice in advance
1:02.0	Love them. They'll Friday swinging together. So I had to reach out for reinforcements on this one
1:07.7	By the way, we got Kim here with me, which is great. I'm speaking of swinging
1:11.8	But I had to reach outside well outside and call my buddy burdo
1:16.8	And he said all right look this is a broad question take what you'd like is your swinging goal to specifically date another couple long term
1:24.5	He said we definitely don't call it swinging where I come from he lives in New York and actually we don't date any couples because we're not polyamorous as opposed to swinging
1:33.0	He said we simply hang out with couples as friends and if the chemistry is right we play
1:38.3	That's a euphemism obviously or we go to play parties meet a hot fun cool couple play together and end up becoming friends again
1:45.5	This is from burdos. I don't want people to be like, oh you and Jenny swing
1:48.1	I
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