Welcome to the Art of Charm. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger and I'm here with producer Jason to Philipo.

Here at the Art of Charm we don't have all the answers but we certainly have a lot of questions and of course today on fan mail friday.

Those questions come from you and then we'll do our best to get you the answers and advice and good old fashioned tough love.

To help you get through these situations but mostly we're just here for our own entertainment right that's about it you know it's like I love helping people but also.

There's something about checking that inbox where I just go you know my life's not so bad there's a lot of stuff in here that's really horrible.

And I'm not happy about that at all but I am happy to help and this is sort of a holiday edition right in that.

It's the holidays and for no other reason but I think that.

I think that people really the inbox gets packed over the holidays because people go home and they got their family or they break up with their long distance with their sweetheart or.

Something like that and there's just a lot of a lot of people's ish comes out over the holidays Jason that it does that it does.

I mean my own issues coming out to I had pumpkin pie for breakfast that's not normal there's nothing normal about that at all.

We just start to show off with the classy let's do a classy I didn't even put it on a plate I just ate pieces of the edge of the pie out of the pie tin that was in the fridge.

I wish we had pumpkin pie at my Christmas dinner we had mint pie that's just wrong nobody should have a mint pie.

That sounds terrible actually I love pumpkin pie so I always get pumpkin pie for Thanksgiving and then for Christmas and then for the rest of the year I basically don't get to have any.

So screw it if I want to have pumpkin pie for breakfast the day after Christmas that's what's happening if I don't want to put it on the plate doesn't matter although something funny did happen I kind of felt a little

little bit of a shame eating it right and I heard Jenny come home so I started just inhale the rest of the piece that I had in my fork and I started coughing uncontrollably and just like oh no are you getting sick and I'm like no.

Just like what's wrong with you and I was like nothing she's like you're being weird and I was like fine I ate pumpkin pie for breakfast and I inhaled so fast that I'm the choked on it a little bit she's like oh my god.

You're feeling crummy because you ate too many crumbs yeah I just the man child I turned into a man child on the holidays I sit around I play video games I watch super hero

stuff on Netflix and I eat junk food out of a container instead of being an adult and putting it in a free it's like you know when your kid and there's no clean balls and so you

pour your lucky charms into like a giant salad bowl and you eat it with the serving spoon yeah that's that's what that's the I'm basically doing that except I found an actual bowl and just

decided not to use it or an actual plate I didn't even try to find one there's a little kid is at least put in the effort you know I mean we're

adulting most of the year you can take a week off every now and again and just be a man child it's okay nobody's gonna judge you that's

that's kind of how I feel about it all right that makes sense now let's hear from people with real problems take it away Jay

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