Fan Mail Friday #125 | Is Formulating a Response a Mistake?

The Art of Charm

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🗓️ 28 July 2017

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to it! In this episode: Does the conversation often move on before you've had the time to formulate a response? Is the perfectionist inside of you too restless to enjoy how good you've really got it? How can you tell legitimate coaches apart from the money-grubbing shysters? Do you consume so much information that it's hard to make any of it stick? How can you become better at thinking on your feet in considering counter-arguments and debating your position in the moment? Why doesn't Jordan sound like he's from Michigan? What's the best way to deal with a "friend" who can't be happy for your successes? Documentaries of the week: Get Me Roger Stone and Happy People: A Year in the Taiga. Quick shoutouts to Dr. Freda Tyson in DC and Marie Saint-Pierre from Montreal! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]! Check out Jordan's (@TheArtofCharm) other show: The Forbes List, and Jason's (@jpdef) other show: Grumpy Old Geeks. Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/fmf125/ Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! With an unmatched selection of audiobooks, original audio shows, news, and comedy, Audible is your best source for summertime entertainment. Art of Charm listeners: start a 30-day trial and download your first audiobook for free by going to audible.com/aoc here! Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

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0:00.0	Hey, welcome to the Art of Charm.
0:10.3	I'm Jordan Harbinger.
0:11.3	I'm here with producer Jason.
0:12.9	Today we're talking femal friday.
0:15.0	This is where you ask us your questions and we give you direct advice for your particular
0:18.6	situation.
0:19.8	Always a lot of fun, sometimes really funny, and always hopefully informative.
0:23.9	Alright Jason, let's cut right to it.
0:25.6	Jordan, I've always been the quiet one.
0:27.7	I'm a 30 year old introvert, but I enjoy being around people.
0:31.4	My wife and I recently went to a dinner with some new friends.
0:34.3	We've known them for a few months now, but this is maybe the third time we've all gotten
0:37.7	together.
0:38.7	This is the first double date with just the four of us.
0:41.4	They've got three kids and so do we.
0:43.9	Dinner was a blast.
0:44.9	We talked, laughed, shared stories, although on the drive home my wife said, you didn't
0:49.5	talk too much.
0:51.0	I tend to internalize everything in formulated response.
0:54.1	It seems like everyone else at the table thinks out loud.
0:57.5	By the time I formulated a response, the conversation has moved on.
1:01.5	My question is, how do I jump in without taking the conversation back in time and not
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