Fan Mail Friday #104 | Who Is This Guy?

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Education, Health & Fitness, Business

4.7 • 11K Ratings

🗓️ 3 March 2017

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to it! In this episode: A recovering smart alec wonders how to get a second chance at a bad first impression. Zooming out on talent to see the skill beneath. How do you become so interesting that people can't help but befriend you, hire you, and line up around the block to get your attention? A close friend suddenly stops responding to every effort at contact -- how can you find out what went wrong? When you're a child of the world, your hybrid accent is nothing to be ashamed of. When you've been burned in past relationships, how do you get over the "there are no good [women/men]" fallacy? [Related: Kimberly Seltzer's advice for How to Find a Therapist] Shoutouts to Konrad -- who used negotiation tactics he learned at AoC while working on The Paris Agreement -- and Xana, who benefits most from our Minisode Monday episodes! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com! Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! What's the art of mastering the nap? Check out the Ben Greenfield Fitness Podcast here once you're done hitting the snooze button for the 17th time! The Forbes List with Jordan Harbinger is a new show that reveals the details behind Forbes' lists that don't make it to the magazine or online. You'll get a deeper look at what it takes to put together Forbes' lists of the top companies, wealthiest people, and biggest celebrities in the world. Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/fmf104/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Art of Charm. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger. I'm here with producer Jason DeFilippo.
0:04.8	Here at the Art of Charm we may not have all the answers but certainly have some of the questions
0:09.1	and today on Fan Mill Friday those questions come from you. If you're new to the Art of Charm
0:13.0	podcast, Fan Mill Friday is a great place to start, slash not a great place to start because
0:17.6	a lot of our content is more in-depth, it's longer format, involves interviews with people
0:21.7	you've heard of so feel free to check out the best of at the Art of Charm.com slash best
0:26.4	or the fundamentals toolbox at the Art of Charm.com slash toolbox. If you have an iPhone
0:30.9	you can get our iPhone app and those separate categories best of toolbox they're all
0:35.2	separated in the app for easy access. And in those tabs we've got the fundamentals of
0:39.9	reading body language and charismatic nonverbal communication, the science of attraction, negotiation
0:44.8	techniques, networking and influence strategies, persuasion tactics and everything else that
0:49.2	we teach here at the Art of Charm. We'll send all that to your inbox if you text Charm
0:53.6	and that's CHAR MED to 3, 3, 4, 4, 4 here in the States or just go to the Art of Charm.com.
0:59.4	Alright, let's cut to it.
1:00.7	Hi Jordan, love your podcast and I'm starting to delve a bit into your mini-sodes and maybe
1:05.1	this would be an excellent subject matter for one of them. I'm a 50 year old woman and
1:09.6	work in a large corporation. I grew up in a blue collar neighborhood with two older brothers
1:13.4	and no sisters so certain types of stereotypically female behavior can be a challenge for me given
1:18.4	my social conditioning which was basically growing up with two ball-busting dudes and no
1:22.3	girls to bond with. I have a bad habit of teasing people and saying things that I think
1:26.4	should be obviously taken as tongue in cheek but many times are probably taken quite literally.
1:30.9	I'm a Kathy Griffin and Amy Schumer fan so thinking that direction. And sometimes the
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