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The Art of Charm

Fan Mail Friday #101 | The Drunk Cam Program

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Education, Business, Health & Fitness

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 10 February 2017

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. Let's cut to it! In the process of getting in better shape, is it too much to ask that the people you attract are similarly trying to improve their own lives in some way? Your partner is perfect in every way until the alcohol comes out. How do you deal with this Jekyll and Hyde scenario? You're really just shy, but people think you're arrogant because you don't mingle well. It's a common problem, but we've got an uncommon solution. Can deep work happen in a team setting, or does it need to be an isolated process? Deep Work author Cal Newport weighs in. Does organizing your life by calendar weeks or months in advance put a damper on flexibility? Jordan can't run 25 miles barefoot, but he can do this. Quick shoutouts to Glenn, Nick, and our number one fan (she knows who she is)! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com! Wearing a stylish timepiece shouldn't break the bank. Art of Charm listeners can find out why MVMT is the fastest-growing watch company in the world for 15% off with free shipping and free returns here! Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/fmf101/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Art of Charm. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger. I'm here with producer Jason

0:04.3

to Philipo here at AOC. We may not have all the answers, but we certainly have some of

0:08.6

the questions today on Fanmail Friday. As usual, those questions come from you. If you're

0:13.2

new to the Art of Charm podcast, Fanmail Friday, well, it's maybe my favorite show to do,

0:18.4

but it's not my favorite place for new people to start. Most of our content is more in-depth

0:23.0

and it's longer format. So check out the best of at theartofcharm.com slash best or the

0:28.1

fundamentals toolbox at theartofcharm.com slash toolbox. Those are also separate tabs in our

0:33.4

iPhone app if you got that rocket and rolling on your on your smartphone. At the toolbox, we've

0:39.0

got the fundamentals of reading body language and charismatic nonverbal communication, the science

0:43.4

of attraction, negotiation techniques, networking, influence strategies, persuasion tactics,

0:48.4

basically everything that we teach here at the Art of Charm. And we'll send that to your inbox.

0:52.9

If you text the word charmed to 3, 3, 4, 4, 4 in the states here that's C-H-A-R-M-E-D, you can

0:59.0

text it to the number 3, 3, 4, 4, 4 in the states. Anywhere else just go to theartofcharm.com.

1:05.3

All right, let's cut to it. This first question comes from an AOC sister.

1:10.0

Jordan, I've been traveling a bit lately and had the opportunity to listen to a lot of your

1:13.5

podcasts. In several episodes, you talked about how important looks are while dating.

1:18.0

Also, you mentioned guys possibly being intimidated by girls who run Spartan races or the like.

1:23.2

While I totally understand that's how a lot of guys are, I'm looking for some advice on how

1:27.2

to overcome that obstacle. As you can see from the picture I sent, I'm not in the best shape,

1:31.6

but working towards it. Over the last year, I've become more involved in go-ruck events and

1:36.2

started taking Brazilian jujitsu classes, both are kind of crazy activities. I sometimes have a

1:41.8

hard enough time motivating myself to get to the gym and can't afford to date someone who only

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