Welcome to the rewire podcast. I'm your host Ryan Stouman and I'm here to rewire your mind for success.

You were put on this planet for success. You were created to succeed, but the force of average is after you every single day my

brothers and sisters and this podcast is the one thing that's designed to help you

fight the force of average and excel in every area of your life.

We're glad that you're here.

So for those of you that don't know, I have a wife and four kids,

we're the epitome of a blended family.

My oldest son, Jackson, I share him with this mom 50, 50, my next

to oldest son, Asher, I adopted him. His dad's not really active in the picture and I

adopted him change his last name in 2021. My son

Colton is Amy and I's son together and my daughter Harlan is Amy and I's

daughter together.

So four kids, two of them are ours, two of them are half ours, but they're all ours.

And that means that, you know, luckily with Asher I'm not managing some outside parenting, but with

Jackson I am.

And the way his mom does things and their family does things is completely different than the way that I do things.

So there's a couple of things in my household that will help you guys if you're raising children

and you're married.

There's a couple of things in my household that we agreed on up front.

Amy, my wife, is high love. That's her role in the kids. She's the loving, the mother, she's the mother ducker, she's the loving the mother she's the mother ducker she's

and what I mean by that is she's always you know nudging on them and loving on them and

helping them with their homework and caring about them she rarely gets on to

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