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Hi, this is Janet Lansbury. Welcome to Unruffled. So I'm excited. I think this is going to be fun, at least for me, hopefully for you too. Most of the time you hear me talking about play,

I'm usually talking about how to help nurture our child's ability

to create their play,

to be self-directed, because there are so many benefits

to this that are well documented, creatively,

cognitively, socially, emotionally, and physically in terms of developing skills and self-confidence.

There's really nothing like knowing that you have ideas and you can play them out with

other children or by yourself. This is a lifelong gift we can give our children. So most of the time you're hearing me talk about that often.

It's about our boundaries, being comfortable,

not being as involved in play, being able to be a supporter

and a responder rather than somebody that's doing the play for them in an entertaining way,

therefore possibly creating dependencies.

So today's going to be completely different

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