Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

I absolutely love this idea at failing spectacularly at the thing you want.

Fail at it. Liberation lives here. Okay, I'm going to read an excerpt from Liz Gilbert's letters from love. You can check them out on Substack. I'm a subscriber.

I think it's just $5 a month that you pay. And weekly, she releases letters that she writes

with a special guest. This week, it was Anita Morgiani, who's been on the podcast. Please, I beseech

you, watch her interview. It was incredible. Her story is incredible. She effectively died and came back

to life and tells the tale of what happened on the other

side. You're a bestselling book called Dying to Be Me from being riddled with cancer over 20 years ago.

And oh my gosh, I'm not going to give anything away. Check out the interview with Anita

Morgiani and check out her book, Dying to Be Me. But yesterday I was at my pool, hello Miami,

and I was reading letters from love from Liz Gilbert. And the topic was around people pleasing,

right, or seeking approval from others. And she shares in this letter that she loves being alone. She

loves it when no one knows where she is. She loves that feeling of freedom. And I wanted to read

you an ex up today because it's powerful, it's beautiful. And it might just give you this sense

of, oh my gosh, what is it that I could be experiencing

if the approval of others, the love from others, the acceptance of others wasn't the goal?

Here's what Liz Gilbert says.

Fail at it, my love.

Fail at all of those roles you're supposed to fulfill.

Every one of them, spectacularly.

She speaks about failing as a wife, as not becoming a mother, as not being a dutiful woman.

She said this.

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