Experience that most brutal of teachers, but you learn, my God do you learn.

A quote by William Nicholson.

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All right, in this episode, I want to focus upon something

very basic for just basic self-help.

So we're not getting into some advanced, crazy spirituality here.

Just basic self-help.

This will change how you live your life.

Right, look, fundamentally what we're doing here is we're doing personal development

We're self actualizing you're trying to build a better life for yourself

ignoring spiritual trying to build a better life for yourself,

ignoring spirituality for now. You're just trying to build a better life for yourself.

You're trying to figure out what life is.

And I don't mean at a metaphysical level, although hopefully you're interested in that.

I talk about that elsewhere, but you're, you need to at least be able to figure out what life is so that you can navigate it for purposes of survival and for purposes of just thriving.

If you want to thrive in your life, if you want to build a great life for yourself. You have to figure stuff out. How do you do that?

Well, of course, you can listen to people telling you answers.

But the problem there is that you don't know who to listen to.

Because just to know who you should listen to,

because there's a lot of people you can listen to and frankly a lot of

idiots out there who you could be listening to. So who do you listen to? How do you

determine that? Well you have to sort of bootstrap your own understanding of life.

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