Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives, where three marriage bloggers discuss the naked truth.

What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriages?

I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives.

I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice.

And I'm Jay Parker, of Hot, Holy and Humorous.

Pull up a chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat. Welcome back to

sex chat for Christian wives. In several episodes and even in a webinar, we've talked about some

differences between men's sexual response and women's sexual response. Not only is it important

that we understand for ourselves, our own sexual response,

it's also important that we be able to talk with our husbands about it.

So today we're going to talk a little bit about what some of those differences are

and then lead into some ways we can talk with our husbands to help them understand

how our bodies, minds, and hearts work.

So let's go ahead and start by laying a foundation so everyone can understand what it is

we're even talking about.

What are some of the ways that men and women differ from each other sexually?

Girls have a vagina and boys have a penis.

And boys have a wee-wee-wee.

I'm thinking way back to kindergarten cop. Do you remember that? Yes, I do remember that. Yeah, that's dating us.

One thing that I'm going to talk about here is this idea of what desire looks like. And this is a stereotype here,

but I think it's often true. For many men, a desire for sex leads to arousal. You know, a husband

might look at his wife and see all the interesting parts of her. And then he thinks, ooh, I want to have some of that, or I'd like to

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