Exotic Dancers. What do you really think of the people that see you perform?

I was a male dancer for a bit. My opinion, it's all types for all reasons. Passing judgment on

folks generally just makes you less approachable. There are good people who like watching

gyrating undressed people, but they're socially awkward and have lots of money. Creepy is still

creepy. Considerate is still considerate. Only difference is I'm not wearing pants. Personally, I didn't dance for any guys. Like I mentioned, I was only there for a short time, but I'd totally dance for guys if they were good customers. I'm as straight as they come, unfortunately. Guys who'd come in for dances would likely be very fun and generous.

Never met a gay guy I didn't like. Ex-d dancer here. The guys that came in and knew the deal were

great. Tip the girl on stage, get a sitting dance, be polite. The worst with the guys that thought

they were smarter than the girls or that they could somehow game us. Like one guy I can remember

went on a whole rant about how smart he was because he could tell it was fake and the girls weren't really attracted to the men. Um, yeah, dude, you're a genius. Or when they think they're being funny by degrading the women? It's not funny and you're the one who looks bad. Honestly, for the most part, I didn't think about the guys much at all. I was on autopilot most of the time and didn't judge them any more than thinking who looks interested in a private dance or who was a D-bag that I wanted to avoid.

I don't mean to be rude, but genuine question.

What would you think of a lesbian booked you for a dance?

Oh, totally fine.

Lots of couples did that too.

I didn't care who was getting the dance as long as they were paying, respectful and enjoying themselves.

You get your share of creeps, but mostly where I worked, a long time ago, a lot of young groups of guys were just looking for a good time.

Every once in a while you have someone who has too good of a time and gets rowdy and acts like an idiot.

Granted, I only worked two or three nights a week. People who dance full-time, especially during the day, have a whole different kind of crowd to deal with. But customers are generally all the same, just looked for something to distract them in their life for a while. Feels like a lifetime ago that I danced, my husband and I go together every once in a while to get a private dance for a bit,

and it's way more fun being on the other side of it. I loved the guys who just wanted to have a

fun night out and were also respectful. Was lucky enough to come across a few groups like this during

my dancing years. I loved the ones who were nervous. In the city where I worked, customers were

allowed to touch us anywhere except our crotch

or booty hole. This adorable early 20s guy was so excited, like, is it okay if I touch

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