Ex-husband ruins my daughter's life because he doesn't like that I make more money than him.

I have a daughter, Sadie, with my ex-husband John.

We got divorced five years ago, and I have primary custody while he sees her two weekends a month.

Last year, he got married to Amanda, who has sole custody of her kids, from a previous marriage. Amanda is a stay-at-home

mum, not for any health reasons or so on, she just doesn't want to work, while John works 9 to 5.

He makes good money to support them, but not enough to live in luxury. I have a much higher-paying job.

Since it's just me and Sadie, I make sure she has the best possible life.

She goes to a private school, I set her up a college fund, and she has much better things than

most kids, in terms of phone, clothes, among others. I still managed to raise her to be humble and

not take things for granted, and she's one of the hardest working people I know, always making

sure to get good grades and keep her room tidy. Well, the last few times she's one of the hardest working people I know, always making sure to get good grades and

keep her room tidy. Well, the last few times she came back after a weekend at Johns, I noticed

that the clothes she was bringing back in her duffel bag, A, not her size, and B, much cheaper and

poorer quality than what I buy for her usually. I asked her why that was, and she told me,

while she's at her dad's, Amanda takes away her nice clothes and gives them to her kids, while Sadie gets

the clothes they buy from Target. I asked her if she wanted them back, but she said she didn't mind

sharing, since all of her favorite clothes were kept here. The problem came when I went to pick

her up last weekend. I had a business meeting and I couldn't drive her over, so Amanda offered to

just pick up Sadie from school, which hadn't happened before. When I got there on Sunday,

John and Amanda asked me to sit down with them, and when Sadie came to hug me, Amanda sent her to

her room quite harshly, saying

her punishment wasn't over yet. I was confused because Sadie very rarely misbehaves. They sat me

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