Ex Fiancee Contacted Me After 5 Months Of No Contact
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 2 April 2026
⏱️ 14 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:06.0 | newsletter is going to be. |
| 0:07.0 | Ex-fiancee contacted me after five months of no contact. |
| 0:12.0 | So this particular emails from a viewer who he broke up with his fiance about five months ago and he's in the military. |
| 0:19.0 | So an additional wrinkle that he has is he's obviously deployed |
| 0:22.6 | on a base overseas or he's in another country and so he invited her and she reached out for |
| 0:28.5 | his birthday after five months of no contact so he invited her to come see him she declined saying |
| 0:34.6 | her finance she couldn't afford it basically and he turned around and said, you know, when your finances get straightened out, hit me up. I'd love to see you. And then she starts talking about sending his stuff back. And it doesn't sound like it's really much that he left behind. And so what he's doing is basically saying, you can keep it, you can throw it away, you can pawn it. I pawn it i don't need it and then you know he ends up ultimately giving her his address and so this is |
| 1:01.0 | just shows it doesn't always go the way you want when a woman breaks no contact maybe she's just |
| 1:06.4 | feeling them out especially if it's like a shirt or two and it's like not really a big deal. |
| 1:12.2 | So he's creating the opportunity where she could just send everything back. |
| 1:15.3 | If that's all she wants, then maybe he never hears from her again. |
| 1:18.5 | But he sends in the text exchange because he wanted me to go over and critique how he handled |
| 1:23.8 | it. |
| 1:25.2 | Because at the end of the day, you're open to potentially giving her another chance. |
| 1:29.7 | He doesn't go into what led to the breakup or anything. It just she's, he's new to my work |
| 1:35.5 | and he's in no contact and this is the first thing he's heard. So maybe she really is just reaching |
| 1:41.4 | out to give him his stuff back because she's done. But it also, |
| 1:45.5 | it'll be interesting to see if she actually does that because sometimes women will say that. |
| 1:49.7 | And all they're really trying to do is find out if you're still available or still open to seeing |
| 1:53.4 | them. Maybe they're dating somebody else at this point or whatever. And so it's like you're kind |
| 1:58.8 | of calling their bluff. Remember, the strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away and mean it. like you kind of call in their bluff remember the strongest |
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